Healthy Friction Pacific Northwest 08-11 August 2025

Healthy Friction PNW

08-11 August 2025

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Weekend of Masturbation at the Paca Pride Guest Ranch.
(Private Party).

Healthy Friction is a Bate-Reunion.
3 night camping Masturbation Vacation in the woods.

What is Healthy Friction?

Celebrate your penis and reunite with your bate brothers.

• Mutual Consent is Key.

• Solo Masturbation.

• Mutual Jack-Off..

• Erotic and Sexy Touch..

• Showing Off your Penis.

• Enjoying the Show of Men Showing their Masturbation and Penis.

• Frottage, Cock to Cock.

• Circle Jerk around the fire, (fire season depending).

• Nipple Play.

• Male Fellowship

• Phallic Photography but in another Area away from the Main Room and Play Areas.

• Bring a towel to set on in your Bate travels.

Eventbrite Tickets

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/healthy-friction-pnw-tickets-1250950790489?aff=oddtdtcreator

Current capacity: 45
Potential capacity: 100

Paca Pride Guest Ranch.

28311 Mountain Loop Hwy, Granite Falls, WA 98252

Care to come day early, make arrangements with Paca Pride.
Late check out, make arrangements with Paca Pride.

https://pacaprideguestranch.com/

50 miles north of Seattle.
30 miles east of Everett's Paine Field.

https://maps.app.goo.gl/wRQ9c2DCM7xxn2PW8

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• Weekend Of Masturbation, Masturbation Vacation. 2025. Palm Springs 10-14 April Pacific NW 08-11 August Maine Late Summer 2025 Negotiations Palm Springs 25-28 September

Healthy Friction Palm Springs 10-14 April 2025.

 

Healthy Friction in Palm Springs.

10-14 April 2025.

Healthy Friction. 10-14 April 2025.
4 day event. Private party.
Host Hotel is Vista Grande Resort.
3 night minimum stay.

The Room block is Friday, Saturday, and Sunday.
Room rates are not available online,
Call Vista Grande for actual rates and availability. Phone: (760) 322-2404.

Local registration event pass, all 4 days.

THU Meet N Greet 10 April 4:30-6pm
Dinner break on our own. 6-8pm
THU Night JO party at Men's Oasis in Cathedral City: 8-10pm
FRI-SAT-SUN Weekend of Masturbation at Vista Grande Resort.

All 30 rooms blocked for this private party.

Eventbrite Tickets

Registration and Introduction:

Stay in the Hotel Hotel: Vista Grande Resort 10-14 April 2025.
The Room block is Friday, Saturday, and Sunday.
Host Hotel Registration $175 per person. plus eventbrite fees.
Vista Grande Resort FRI-SAT-SUN, check out MON (sold out).



Locals registration $205 event pass, all 4 days. (plus eventbrite fees).
Overflow Hotels, move down. 

10 April THU Meet N Greet 4:30-6pm
10 April THU Dinner break on our own. 6-8pm
10 April THU Night party at Men's Oasis in Cathedral City: 8-10pm
11-13 April FRI-SAT-SUN Weekend of play at Vista Grande Resort.

Local event pass, all 4 days.

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/palm-springs-april-2025-healthy-friction-tickets-1033182585927?

Registration Rates subject to change until registered. No refunds.

Registration required for you to get a booking code,
then call the Vista Grande Resort to reserve your room.

Phone: (760) 322-2404

Palm Springs Airport (PSP) to Vista Grande Resort Directions:
https://goo.gl/maps/4atDzrUaAKiFc76V

Meet n Greet
Thursday 19 April 4:30-6pm
600 E Sunny Dunes Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92264

Dinner break on our own 6-8pm
THU night JO party at Men's Oasis in Cathedral City 8-10pm
FRI-SAT-SUN Weekend of Masturbation at Vista Grande Resort.

Stay informed, join the Healthy Friction google group:
https://groups.google.com/g/healthy-friction

What is Healthy Friction?

Celebrate your penis and reunite with your bate brothers.

• Mutual Consent is Key.

• Solo Masturbation.

• Mutual Jack-Off..

• Erotic and Sexy Touch..

• Showing Off your Penis.

• Enjoying the Show of Men Showing their Masturbation and Penis.

• Frottage, Cock to Cock.

• Circle Jerk around the Pools and Hot-Tubs

• Nipple Play.

• Male Fellowship

• Phallic Photography but in another Area away from the Main Room and Play Areas.

• Bring a towel to set on in your Bate travels.
  
  
  

  
  

  We gather in small groups to go out to dinner or the gym.
  Please invite others along.

  
  
  

  

Questions: healthyfriction@gmail.com


Overflow Hotel: (register as a local).

Motel 6 Palm Springs, CA - Downtown
Address: 660 S Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92264
Phone: (760) 327-4200
https://www.motel6.com/en/home/motels.ca.palm-springs.9628.html

Canyon Club
Address: 960 N Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262
Phone: (760) 778-8042
https://canyonclubhotel.com/

Caliente Tropics Resort
411 E Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92264•
(760) 327-1391
https://calientetropics.com/

Casa Oliver Hotel & Resort
Address: 535 S Warm Sands Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92264
Phone: (760) 323-7505
https://casaoliverhotel.com/

Triangle Inn
Address: 555 E San Lorenzo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92264
Phone: (760) 322-7993
https://www.triangle-inn.com/
11APR FRI 1 night

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How to get to Palm Springs.

  

   How to get the Palm Springs for Healthy Friction.
           

 

 

The easiest way to reach Palm Springs is to fly right into Palm Springs (PSP).
It's 2.2 miles from the PSP Airport to the Vista Grande Resort.
Easily can rent a car, take a ride share or a cab.

 

Most times there are group of Bators headed for Lunch and Dinner.
Let's get good the Car-Pool, save Gas, and it's fun to socialize beyond the Bate!

10 minute walk to the Tool Shed. 2 minute drive.
17 minute walk to the Arenas gay Strip and Downtown. 3 minute drive.

Palm Springs Airport (PSP)
 

Google Map Directions from the Palm Springs Airport to Vista Grande Resort.
https://goo.gl/maps/CzrcA6ptiRPvf1sb8







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Ontario Airport (ONT)
http://www.lawa.org/welcomeONT.aspxOntario Airport (ONT) Info.

70 mile drive in a Rental Car.
Southwest Airlines (WN), might be your best bet for flights into ONT.
http://www.southwest.com/ 

Google Map Directions from the Ontario Airport (ONT) to Vista Grande Resort.
https://goo.gl/maps/vcSQjrUAnU92Yirq9

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Los Angeles International Airport (LAX)
http://www.lawa.org/welcomeLAX.aspx

2 hour (or more) depending on Traffic from LAX to Palm Springs!

FlixBus Union Station Downtown LA to Downtown Palm Springs.
Also from Hollywood to Palm Springs.
https://shop.flixbus.com

There is a Big Nice Bus from LAX direct to Union Station Downtown LA.
LAX Flyaway Bus.
https://www.flylax.com/flyaway-bus/union-station

Google Map Directions from the LAX to Vista Grande Resort.
https://goo.gl/maps/JN28cjZLjh5UsFFP6

                        

San Diego International Airport (SAN)

1st choice: over the Mountain under 3 hours.
https://goo.gl/maps/RTPjGaopGTWwrhYv7

2nd choice: Freeway all the way. 2 hours 30 minutes.
https://goo.gl/maps/otGzca3eLQwPJBwN8

           

              
The Dinosaurs in Cabazon, in the Beaumont Pass before you reach Palm Springs.
                                                      http://www.cabazondinosaurs.com/

                                 

Healthy Friction T-shirts:
http://www.cafepress.com/healthyfriction

Join the Healthy Friction google group for most up to date info.
https://groups.google.com/g/healthy-friction

 

The culture of Photography and Videos at Healthy Friction.

Every Photographer/Videographer agrees to always ask permission before taking a photo.
Burning Man does this, and it's easy.
Just communicate.

If Photos are going to be taken, you'll know, because the photographer will ask first,
No worries.
No One will take your photo without your permission.

It didn't happen at the original Bate-Off last APR 3-5, 2009.
It didn't happen at Healthy Friction in Vegas, at the Blue Moon Resort, 16-18 OCT, 2009.
Didn't happen from 2009 through today.
It won't happen this weekend.

If a photo/video gets taken of you and YOU don't agree to it, ask the photographer to delete it! Easy.

Perhaps I will make some signs that can designate the area we might be doing the photography,

easily it can be away from the Big House, so there should be no question or issue for anyone.

Button from Burning Man 2009 from the camp that educates this social custom and etiquette.

From the Bureau of Erotic Discourse, URL for this camp at Burning Man below.

http://www.bureauoferoticdiscourse.org/

http://www.burningman.com/press/photo_guide.html

Burning Man's number one rule of etiquette for photography is Ask First – you should get permission before taking somebody's photo. Does this mean you can't grab a shot of somebody cruising by on a really cool bike, or capture a compelling scene you happen to see through your telephoto lens? No, of course not – realistically, you should ask first whenever realistically possible. But the question you have to ask yourself before pressing the shutter is "Am I invading this person's privacy in any way?". If the person is fully or partially nude, in the middle of some obviously very private moment, or doing anything that perhaps they would not want the whole world to see, then yes, you definitely need to ask first – do not press the shutter. If somebody is doing henna body painting on a nude model in Center Camp, and there are a dozen people with cameras surrounding them snapping away, can you just jump in and take pictures as well? No you can't – instead, set an example for the others. Go up to the model and ask first. Some of the other photographers undoubtedly already did so, and the ones who did not perhaps will appreciate the reminder that they should have.

I'm not looking for any action photos in the house itself, that makes the guys nervous. 
I think the Burning Man rule of asking for permission to take a photo works. 
In fact, I set up areas away from the normal action to take stills of who ever wants photos, 
like beside the house under a tree, or even next door on a patio that doesn't get used.
So it's good for privacy.

We can even use my private room in the house. 

Let me make it clear, No One will have their photo taken without the expressed consent to do so. 
The Rules need discussion, it's FUN!
Like any other boundaries kind of action like Dominant/Sub, S&M, Role Play Game, Daddy-Son, etc.

If you see me with my Camera out, 
well then follow me where I'm leading if you want you photo taken.
 If you don't want your photo taken, Don't follow me! 

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The Original Healthy Friction JO Parties in LA

I just came upon the original invite to Healthy Friction, way back when,
It was a fund raiser for ActUp-LA, and the new (at the time) Queer Nation LA,
Here is the invite I handed out to cute guys in travels, either at my FAV Leather Bar at the time,
"The One Way", on Hoover in Silver Lake, or in the many (new to LA) protests, around the "Southland",
in these days ActUp was very sexy, and this was a way for me to promote JO as a Sexy Activity,
and the first one just in time for my Birthday in OCT 1989.

I left these invites on the table for the meetings of ActUp-LA
without telling anyone that was me on the Invite, oh it got talked about, oh so much...
ActUp culture required that we debate and converse whether this fundraiser would get the official endorsement during one of our usual TUE night meetings in West Hollywood Park, where there would be between 35-90 people in attendance. It was amusing to me, My getting to sell the idea of ActUp-LA promoting JO, which of course, is the original "Safe Sex", so of course, they did, but not without having to talk about masturbation for some 20 minutes, (sly grin), I was amused and aroused the entire time.

Later on, the photo I used of myself, from my Chad James film shoots, showed my curved dick, which got a lot of talk in the ActUp-LA gossip pages, also handed out on the table at our weekly meetings.
I loved the way it was argued about whether my dick curved up, down, or left!

Yes, I was the artist and creator of this invite, OCT 1989 edition, the very first Healthy Friction.

                                                                    For more info on Chad James:

                                                              http://chadjamesspeaks.blogspot.com/

                                                              https://groups.google.com/g/chadjames

Healthy Friction's google group:

https://groups.google.com/g/healthy-friction